Fail. Faster.
As much as I love the idea, it still scares the bejeesus out of me. This isn’t about “feeling the fear and doing it anyway” – maybe it is. Just a little. But not much. Not really.
Failing faster is doing the stuff that you think you may fail at (fear) and purposefully pushing the bounds. Like the question you asked yourself earlier this week. What if you failed faster? What if you figured out what didn’t work in 3 weeks instead of 6 months? What if you got the business cards printed and started handing them out NOW? What if you just put the plan together and got freakin’ going?
It can be done…as this week’s grab bag shows in all kinds of ways. And, don’t think that if you are just starting out that advice from a $12 million company or a JV-funded tech start-up doesn’t apply to you. Pssstttt…it so does. Reach in and see what you come up with!
“Hindsight is 20/20. Just go do it. You don’t have experience until you have experience. Learn fast, fail fast, tweak fast.” And so begins the answer to question two of Julie Smolyansky’s interview with Forbes. Who? Julie took over as the CEO, president and treasurer of Lifeway Kefir when she was 27 years old. That was in 2002. Sales have grown from $12 million to $75 million since then. But, you say, that is BIG company with lots of people to help…this can’t apply to lil ol’ me. That is crap. Every company and every business has to try and fail. Work with customers and figure out what they want. Fall down. Get up. Fail fast…and learn fast.
“Failure taught me things I could have learned in no other way.” Ever heard of JK Rowling? Her background of failure is oft-repeated as encouragement that things can totally suck – and you can turn it around by following your passion, no less. If you haven’t heard or refuse on the grounds that Harry Potter can’t be cute because of that wicked scar, listen up anyway. At least for five minutes (it gets a little snoozy after that…). In this 2008 Harvard commencement speech, JK focuses on the benefits of failure. You can get the gist – really, I mean it – by listening for five minute. C’mon. Five minutes! And you’ll be able to say you heard a Harvard commencement speech. Bonus.
Nikki Groom’s Manifesto for Extraordinary Women is exactly what the title says…and it is totally for extraordinary women…specifically extraordinary women entrepreneurs. And item #8? Actively make mistakes. Take risks. Don’t let failure bring you down. Learn. Move on. (This version of the manifesto is from the blog post…but sign up and get the fancy version. It’s pretty cool.) Nikki herself is pretty awesome…and totally a go-to gal for copywriting. I could go on and on about my awe of super-talented copywriters but that might get a little weird…just go check out Nikki for yourself. Now.
Here’s how I like to think of failure: It is sorta like a driver’s test to make sure you are ready. Ready for success. It’s a crappy test – just like the parallel parking part – but it’s a necessary evil. All the more reason to fail faster.







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Thanks for the mention, Jennifer!
Absolutely, Nikki!
xo
Jennifer
Spot ON! Yes, I had heard of companies now requesting for folks to highlight their failures as well as their success, in order to express their personal learning. We do learn more from our failures at times rather our success. Yes, learning from a mistake in three weeks vs six months would indeed be a tremendous asset, but with anything we need to learn more about failure as an positive element to our overall success instead of simply fearing it all the time. I guess I need to remember that. I am loving the women you mentioned above and their journey’s as well b/c honesty with failure make these women the REAL deal! Thanks for sharing your profound wisdom!
Nasrine –
I love sharing a variety of resources! I find such inspiration from what other people are doing – and knowing that it is not always an easy road. I personally have it found it so true that we learn more from our failures than from our successes – it’s just focusing on the “learning” part and not the “failing” part that can get challenging
xo
Jennifer
Great reminders Jennifer.
I look at effort, any effort, this way – never a waste!
(insert Danielle LaPorte quote) ‘Everything is progress.’
Everything happens for a reason, even when we do not understand why we are going through what we are going through when we are going through it. Just because we don’t get the map to our destination in advance, does not mean we need to worry about how we got somewhere. Lessons come in different forms – relationships, failures, and successes. The only way to truly know, it to keep trying.
It’s when we fail that we should pay attention the most.
Leona –
“Just because we don’t get the map to our destination in advance, does not mean we need to worry about how we got somewhere.” Oh how true! Too often I think we can get caught up in the worrying and miss the lesson altogether by not paying attention to that part.
xo
Jennifer
Jennifer – We’ve (my daughters and I) have spent the better part of the last 2 years reading Harry Potter, so of course I’ve just spent the last 20 minutes listening to JK Rowling! Thank you for this! As always great resources!
Christie –
Oh my gosh! My son has read every Harry Potter book at least twice. I dare say that Harry was one of the reasons that his reading and comprehension has skyrocketed…and I am sure the same is true for countless kids. Imagine what an impact would be missing if JK Rowling had given up!
xo
Jennifer
Awesome resources as always Jennifer! I love the introduction to these amazing ladies who are unafraid to admit that their is growth through failure but first to admit you can’t dwell or lollygag, you need to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and course correct! Keep these amazing posts coming! Always a great read!
Thanks, Anastasia!
These posts are my favorite to write – I get to gush about such great people and resources! I love that you find them just as inspirational and motivating.
xo
Jennifer
I love the fail faster concept. I’ve been following this for the last few months and am amazed by how much more I can get done by just DOING things. Checking out Nikki’s manifesto now! Thanks again for all the great resources!
I know, right, Shay? I am delighted to hear that this has worked so great for you.
It’s so funny how just letting go of being afraid to fail can do so much to get you moving…it seems like such a small decision but it has such big impacts! Continued success on that DOING!
xo
Jennifer
Failing fast + and maybe harder + tweaking even faster. This is quickly becoming my motto and I’m implementing with that motto in mind for the rest of this week.
xo,
Amber
Amber –
Love that equation! What a great way to state it and turn it into a motivating motto…I’ll be borrowing it
xo
Jennifer
Hey Jennifer… Yep just gave me push of courage that I definitely needed today… awesome article. I love the fail faster. Necessary evil…. lol like parallel parking… I’m totally down… I kicked parallel parking booty.. ready for failure… Thanks Jennifer!!
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